How a mediation unfolds, in other words how it happens in practical terms, depends on a whole host of factors including the level of conflict/tension between the mediating parties. These days, many mediations are conducted virtually (and I offer that option too) ~ the parties and the mediator connect through their devices using platforms like Zoom. The comments about caucusing that follow are relevant to both mediations taking place in physical premises and those that are virtual.

A separated couple (whether married or common-law) can choose to address in Family Mediation only select and very specific issues ~ those on which they cannot agree through direct dialogue.

Family Mediation can be a difficult and emotional process. After all, it usually arises out of a separation and in those circumstances, emotions are often at the surface, particularly when one side feels aggrieved and left behind.

When two people argue, each is very focused on getting their position heard, often in a loud voice, hands waving. The equivalent of a loud argument in the world of email or text are messages sent in capital letters. Focusing only on getting one’s point across means that one is mostly “transmitting” as opposed to “receiving”.